Rejection happens in the lifestyle. What do you do with the sting. April and Scott sit down with pleasure educator Luna Matatas to unpack expectations, etiquette, and empathy when play does not line up for all four people. They dig into clear asks, enthusiastic consent, and how to set goals that are sexual, sensual, and social so the night still feels like a win. Luna shares her worst threesome, her best threesomes, and practical scripts for saying yes and no with kindness. Plus a peek at what she is bringing to Be Better at Being Bad this January. Tune in for real stories, real growth, and a reminder that someone else’s no is a big yes to themselves.Luna Matatas website: https://lunamatatas.com/en-us Naughty Gym Info: Website: www.naughtygym.com Events: https://www.naughtygym.com/ng-events

In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we talk with Luna Matatas about choosing process over destination in polyamory/consensual non-monogamy. We get honest about owning your needs, being new and learning from CNM mistakes, and building tolerance for jealousy, rejection, and feeling left out. We also touch on why CNM demands more and deeper conversations, aligning behavior with values, and approaching community events as play and connection—costumes, kink nights, glow themes, Halloween, all of it. 

Luna Matatas website: https://lunamatatas.com/en-us

Naughty Gym Info: 
Website: www.naughtygym.com
Events: https://www.naughtygym.com/ng-events

NAUGHTY GYM SHOW - Non-Monogamy, Open Relationships, and Living Well

Cupcakes, Cunnilingus, & Cuddles: Luna Matatas & Handling Rejection